Your Questions About Teething Baby Won’t Sleep

Daniel asks…

Our 17 month old baby won’t sleep through the night. What can we do?

Since he was about 10 months old and up until last month, he’d been sleeping in his own bed and in his own room through the night without any problems. Recently, it’s just been a nightmare. He gets up almost every hour crying and screaming for us to hold him until he falls asleep. I’ve tried moving him into our room and into our bed, but it hasn’t solved the problem. He still wants to be cuddled to sleep. He’s perfectly fine – it’s not what we feed him, not teething, not illness, not a growth spurt…We just can’t figure it out! We need our sleep! Advice anyone?

sophie answers:

I think alot of kids go through these stages… And to be honest i would never start the thing of having my child in my bed, alot of these difficulties come from attention and boy is he getting alot of it from you for this behaviour!

Make sure you have a relaxing bedtime routine set up, a soothing bath, drink of milk and quiet time with a story, then put him in his own bed, say goodnight to him and leave the room… He will prolly scream and cry and be up and down for hours the first week or so so be prepared for this… When he gets out of his bed, take him back to his bed, do not speak, do not make eye contact, do not cuddle or fuss him, there is nohing wrong like you said and you are not being a bad parent by doing this.. It is called “rapid return.. Be prepared at the outset to do this ALOT of times, (one night with my son it was 35times!!) do this EVERY time he gets out of his bed, if he stays in his bed but cries, scream etc, ignore him (unless you know he has hurt himself obviously) he will soon realise that this behaviour is NOT acceptable and within about 2 weeks you will all be getting a good nights sleep in your own beds!!!

Also a god idea is to have a sticker chart if he is old enough to understand how it works, he gets a sticker for spending the WHOLE night inhis own bed and a big cross if he dosnt… Once he “earns” 3 stickers in one week he gets a treat (something small if you chose a toy or sweets, or a trip to the park, something he enjoys anyway!) once he has hit the 3 sticker target 3 times up the anti to four stickers in one week… And so on and so forth

good luck xx

George asks…

5 months baby won’t sleep or take bottle?

I know this is asked a lot and I read any other posting about it, to no avail. we have a 5 month old baby who has a very strong will of his own. We do not believe in the cry-it-out strategy (I actually think it’s cruel and teaches him nothing but the fact that he’s helpless. I think it breaks their spirit rather than educate them). he was always hard to fall asleep and needed rocking, singing, nursing etc. A couple of weeks ago he stopped nursing gradually and now gets pumped milk from a bottle due to silent reflux combined with the fact that I have strong and fast flow. So nursing to sleep is no longer an option, nor will he fall asleep in the stroller, car, being rocked…he would only fall asleep when my husband carries him around in the car seat. Needless to say, it’s heavy and difficult and takes longer and longer, no up to 30 minutes af walking around with him complaining and fussing. He also started to refuse the bottle, he would take it if he’s half asleep or occasionally when he’s in his stroller. We spoke to 3 lactation consultants, went to the doctor several times, he’s gaining ok, there are no apparent problems or teething. He also used to sleep from 8pm to 6am with 2 nursings in between. Now he will wake up every 30 minutes to 2 hours, will have us walk him in his car seat to sleep and will have us and him up 4-5 times a night for hours. I would appreciate any suggestions, we’re exhausted.
Thanks to everyone who answered so far. Some additional details… he does not fall asleep in the car, he has a swing and bouncer which he doesn’t care for and he takes Mylicon for gas…

sophie answers:

My baby had same problem. She had problems digesting her milk and was a very colicky baby. She was always crying and nothing would soothe her except when I decided to buy a Snuggli. It’s a baby nap sack or a Sling as some call it. You can put the baby inside the sling and then wrap it around you. She would stop, honest.
We also purchased a baby swing. Try going to a second hand baby store, they have them slightly used for even less than half the cost at the retail stores. That should help. Once your baby starts to sit up or walk, the crying and whining will diminish. Good luck and God bless.

Betty asks…

Baby won’t sleep through the night?

My son is 6.5 months old and still not sleeping his nghts. He wakes up crying and no settling him until he gets his bottle. Its not because he’s teething since it’s been ongoing since he’s born. Anyone have suggestions on how to get him to sleep thorugh the night.

My mom suggested I give him water at night instead of formula ?

sophie answers:

NEVER EVER EVER give your baby water instead of formula. There is no nutrional value. Why wouldn’t you want him to have formula anyway?? Have you tried changing his diaper? Burping him? Walking him around? He’s only 6.5 months old. A lot of babies dont sleep through the night at that age. He’s just a baby, he’ll sleep through the night eventually.

Linda asks…

Help my Baby just won’t sleep?

My baby girl is six months old and is teething, she used to be a pretty good sleeper, still waking once a night though. but recently she just won’t sleep more than two hours during the day. i put her down when she is tired – normally she puts herself to sleep, but now she just lies there talking and being awake. She is pretty grumpy because of the lack of sleep. I tried the controlled crying method which hasn’t really worked. i go into her room, tuck her back in and tell her it is sleep time. Last night she went to bed at 8.40pm, woke 3 hours later and was up for 3 hours. I don’t know what to do, we have a good sleep routine for her and all that, she eats well, breastfed and solids. Maybe it is just because she is teething. anyone got any ideas?

sophie answers:

Yep, probably a teething thing. It’s really uncomfortable to cut teeth through your gums!! (As I was reminded recently when I got my last wisdom tooth.) I would just let her play her way back to sleep and if she cries try giving her some teething tablets (all natural and available at any grocery store) and something cold to chew on for a bit and then put her back to bed.

Good luck!

Paul asks…

My 7 month old baby won’t sleep in her crib anymore- help?

Up until now, my husband and I have been co-sleeping with our baby part of the time and putting her in her crib part of the time as well. I’d put her down to sleep at night, sometimes she would sleep through the night, other times she’d wake up, I’d nurse her and sleep through the rest of the night with her. Sometimes I’d nap with her, sometimes she’d nap in her crib. this had been working well for us, However, she started teething this month, and in attempt to give her some extra TLC (and us a little extra sleep) she’s been spending more and more time in our bed– and we’ve somehow gotten to the point where I can’t get her to sleep in her crib anymore. Even if she’s in a dead sleep now, the minute she hits the crib her eyes open and she starts screaming. I’ve tried consoling her, rubbing her back, etc with no luck. Usually she stops crying the minute I pick her up. I really don’t want to make her ‘cry it out’ in her crib, but I’m not sure what else to do at this point. She knows that if she cries long enough, I’ll take her back to the bed. I really love sleeping with my baby, but I just don’t think we can do it anymore- she is so fidgety in her sleep, I keep waking up every hour when she is in the bed with me. Any advice? Thanks!

sophie answers:

WOW…

A co-sleeping mom who actually ADMITS that sleeping with her child is not always the best option!! Every time I try to tell about MY experience with co-sleeping with my baby, I get thumbs-down from the AP brigade!

I’m going thru the same thing with my 6-month old. I just bought her a mini crib, and have been putting her in it for all of her naps…so far so good. But bedtime is difficult for her. She’ll sleep in it for a few minutes, then will cry to be taken out. Since the evenings (after she goes to bed) are the only time of day that I get any “me time”, I usually give in and put her back in my bed!

Just keep putting her in the crib. Soon she will get used to it. It just takes some time. She is used to smelling you on the sheets, and feeling you next to her while she sleeps. Can you put something in the crib with your scent? That may help.

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